Aneoth wrote:Sorry Mike (I cannot pretend to know how you feel as a seller) but in so far as this situation I feel that to submit to paying his E-Bay fees (Read that as Extortion) for nothing is tantamount to allowing outright theft on his part.
Aneoth wrote:No, as far as I know E-Bay has no knowledge of our situation. And if he does re-list without trying to resolve the high charges, then yes I shall report him. However, I think he will be reporting me as a non-paying bidder before that happens anyway. (He wants to get his E-Bay fees back after all) And No, I will NOT pay him any extortion to just walk away. And YES, I shall fight him tooth and nail once E-Bay does get involved. Sorry Mike (I cannot pretend to know how you feel as a seller) but in so far as this situation I feel that to submit to paying his E-Bay fees (Read that as Extortion) for nothing is tantamount to allowing outright theft on his part.
Badmike wrote:Sellers like this are the reason Ebay had to start their ridiculous "no negative feedback from sellers" crap. Mike B.
FormCritic wrote:Exactly.Have you considered sending him a link to this discussion?
Kingofpain89 wrote:Great idea....it has worked so spectacularly well in Tonya, Creep1962, Cougarrinard and so many other seller's cases.
Blackmoor wrote:Today I got an apologetic e-mail about the whole affair and a complete refund of the shipping price. I am certainly confused; they took me for a little ride and made it all good. Maybe Ebay's new policies are working?
Mars wrote:I think Ebay's policy on the matter is that it takes 10 days for a NPB to go through. I don't think it states what a seller can or can't do in the meantime. Although, should the seller decide to relist the items, I'm sure you could make a case for the "Non Selling Seller".
JZavoda wrote:Not what the rep from ebay told me. What I was told was, if a buyer doesn't pay in 7 days the seller can refuse to sell to him and get his FVF back (which I had to do) and any negs left by the buyer will be removed.
again, you agreed to this costs when you bought the items, i am under NO obligation to reduce the charges, if you can show me anywhere in ebay rules that state that then i will, but we both know it doesn`t exsist.i could charge $100 if i wanted to as long as it is in the listing, and if you bid it is understood that this would be the cost. you shot yourself in the foot assuming i would discount the shipping more on multiple items, you should have asked first and you did`nt and the bottom line is i don`t have to. the costs stand, they will not change and as far as i`m concerned this deal is dead, period. at this point all you are looking to do is force me to lower my costs and eat the difference for your mistake, i think i`ll pass. i was hoping to resolve this issue with you but i can see we won`t so lets just go ahead and kill it and move on.and btw, the 48 hours to pay is enforcable because when it is put in the listing it becomes part of the contract of the sale that you bid on, by winning the deal you have agrred to the contract and its stipulations, regardless of this point however we won`t get past the shipping/handling cost issue anyways so again, lets just kill the deal peacfully and move on. pete
Since you will not or cannot agree to a realistic discount for combined shipping. Then lets simply do them one at a time. I will pay for the items one at a time including the auctions listed shipping costs for each item individually. As such I want you to ship the items one at a time. Once I have the first item, I shall then pay for the next item. You are quite welcome to also place tracking on each individual item so you know when I got it. I do want the items I bid on, otherwise I would NOT have bid at all. I have never backed out on an agreement either and I have been buying stuff on E-Bay for several years, almost always as a buyer (Except five listing I sold). I normally pay with PayPal within minutes of the end an auction. I was never trying to rip you off. You risk NOTHING this way and in fact you stand to gain even more profit since I will end up paying more than your combined cost for the listings. Best regards Aneoth
Xaxaxe wrote:Christsakes! four pages isn't enough for this nonsense? I think we can all agree that this seller is a shipping profiteer with a questionable attitude and shaky understanding of how eBay works. Then again, he's not the one who did not ask EXACTLY how much the combined shipping total would be.All due respect, Aneoth ... you seem like a decent guy and all that, but you're not entirely blameless here. One simple question asked and none of this is even happening.Asbestos suit (+1, +3 vs. lemurs) is now on; flame away, Acaeum high priests!