jpipes wrote:It's a tough nut either way and gets a lot harder as lots get larger and heavier.
Actually, there's no reason at all for it to get harder — you just need to use the right tools.
If your large lot isn't going to be shipped in the $8.10 flat-rate box (as Breach mentioned above) or by media mail (which is determined solely by weight, not location), then you need to take two basic steps:
1. Get an accurate weight for the package (I heartily recommend one of the postal scales found in any office-supply store);
2. Use that figure with the eBay shipping calculator.
And that's it. Both buyer and seller will be informed of the grand total (high bid, plus shipping based on the buyer's zip code) at the conclusion of the auction — there will be no surprises, and everyone will be on the same wavelength.